Gees April is already done and MAY is not going to slow down either. I hope you and your family are well and looking forward to this new season.
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It’s been a revival at So You Boutique for March and April with people coming back to life, traveling, and going to weddings again. I’m so excited to see everyone coming in, having meaningful connections, and clearing some energy. I pretty much tune up everyone before they leave the studio. =)
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Bella and I just got back from California for a wedding/family reunion. It was sooo good to see so many loved ones. At the same time I felt so many variations of energy from myself and others. I was consumed with excitement, joy, worry, overwhelm, how to make others comfortable, and AWKWARDNESS! I learned that is this what they are calling “RE-ENTRY ANXIETY.” 
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So please give yourself more GRACE and others as we re-enter the world. Release expectations and shoulds…don’t feel stupid if you’ve forgotten how to do things, you’ll stumble with words, give yourself time to do things as many places are understaffed, expect increase in prices, flow with things not what they use to be…for instance, you can’t try on clothes and you may feel “fluffy.”
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Make it an experience and laugh at it. ACCEPT it, Be with it. Make it fun and FLOW. We aren’t suppose to be the same or go back full force and 100%. We are suppose to feel these contrasts to appreciate them. Don’t judge it to be good or bad. Practice discernment and awareness. Then choose.
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Here are some things I noticed that I’m really awkward with:
~People telling me if they’ve been vaccinated to make me feel at ease
~Shifting to give people more space in areas
~Trying to make others more comfortable.
~Knowing what is appropriate to say hearing loss with pets, family, homes, jobs marriages/relationships.
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There’s also these waves of a feeling called “Languishing.: I read about it in  a recent NY Times piece by Adam Grant, called There’s A Name For the Blah You’re Feeling: It’s called Languishing.
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He says languishing is ” a sense of stagnation and emptiness. It feels as if you’re muddling through your days, looking at your life through a foggy windshield.”
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I know, it doesn’t sound uplifting or inspiring at all, but I wanted to share it, because maybe you can relate.
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It’s why, right now, I am more passionate than ever about creating content about energy work to move into flourishing, which Adam Grant describes as the peak of well-being: Where you have a strong sense of meaning, mastery and mattering to others.
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I want what we all do to matter. I want us all to be fully engaged in our lives and excited about our futures. I want us to feel like we have purpose, as well as pleasure. I know right now this feels really hard. I believe there are ways to get there. I believe a shift in energy is always followed by a shift in reality.
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A tool that helps me is CALIBRATING. Abraham Hicks teaches this. You’re gonna wanna know how to re-calibrate yourself often as we get into eclipse season the next 6 weeks. There are so many possibilities/gateways with this season. My mantra is gonna be “Don’t think, Re-Calibrate!
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I hope this email gives you insight to choose and get back on track. Perhaps coming in for a teeth whitening and/or tan will help you radiate to look and feel your best. Our teeth whitening is a zenful experience. Why don’t you treat yourself to both? Click here for the teeth whitening process/prep.